Wednesday, July 7, 2010

Time heals? - About change...

We all know the old saying “Time heals all wounds”. We also should remember it is a bunch of crap. Time heals nothing. It is the change - that usually comes with time - which is the healing ingredient. Whether it be psychological, biological or anything. With time come the regeneration, learning and understanding. The change is what heals.

Change is a strange game. It does not come to those who just let the time pass. Change comes only to those who are willing to change themselves. When you contribute to it, destroy the old and build new, the change will come and it will regenerate, rejuvenate and make you new. Both spiritual and biological healing needs space, intention and time. And when given those, it will come and it will reward you thousand times.

Healing is nowadays seen as a “fix for the broken one” but sometimes the development goes to dead end. To get the development of something back on the right track will need change. Not the time. Most are just hanging desperately on the time but without intention and contribution it is just "time". I have seen people with a will to change, but without contribution and intention they are just the leaves on the winds of change. I’ve also seen people with strong intention and contribution, but who lack the ability or the will to change. They will be the prisoners of their own reality. But having all the three, you will heal and you will change, but you will also inflict the change.

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